Dating a vietnamese man
Andy: Does the wife usually stay at home, or does she work?Phuong: In my opinion, I believe it’s a 50/50 split.Phuong: There is a joke in Vietnam where a couple goes to a restaurant, and if the girl pays the bill, they are married. It may be a joke, but it’s not that far from the truth! I guess that’s the case for 70% – 80% of married couples. Andy: How involved is the wife’s mother in her daughter’s family, such as taking care of the kids, etc…?
Phuong: I think cheating is a big issue everywhere.
She’s afraid he will spend it all on gambling, drinking or other girls. Today, it’s still the wife that does the majority of the work. But after she has children, generally the wife’s parents will give a lot of support, especially with babysitting.
My cousins and I used to stay with my grandmother when my parents were working.
While this is fine, those are not what I would call typical Vietnamese girls.
She likely is somewhat Westernized and her parents are probably less traditional.